In January 2020, Ryan shared a photo from the couple’s New Year’s Eve party, but little did fans know that it was actually from their wedding. In a May 2020 interview with Vogue, the pair confirmed that they secretly tied the knot on New Year’s Eve in Austin, TX.
After a close friend of Ryan’s died, the couple decided that they didn’t want to wait to get married and planned their wedding in 28 days. “The time just felt right,” Ryan told Vogue. “He was excited that Joshua and I were getting married, and I never doubted that I’d know him through every coming phase of our lives. When he passed, it really rocked me and put a lot of things in perspective. It didn’t feel important to wait anymore, to stop being busy, or for things to line up perfectly — intending to do things is not nearly as powerful as doing, as we aren’t promised tomorrow.”
